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Unless you’re living under a rock, you know that dark feminine energy has become a huge trend in 2024.
There’s a lot of talk on social media, especially on TikTok, about how to harness your inner dark feminine energy to get the most out of life.
However, as soon as you start looking into it, you are quick to find a lot of elusive, witchy, black magic type of mystical-crystal takes.
While I believe in the principles of energy and the laws of attraction and manifestation, I do think there’s a lot less magic to it, and more of a psychological tool to add to your womanhood arsenal.
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So, what is dark feminine energy?
As for the definition of dark feminine energy, while some may refer to it is as “toxic femininity,” I would strongly disagree.
Dark feminine energy is the art, or air rather, of executing a balance between powerful, mysterious, yet soft and feminine.
It is not to be considered dark in the sense of manipulative, but rather a woman’s dark or puzzling abilities to harness feminine power to influence wanted outcomes or perceptions.
Who can or should tap into dark feminine energy?
I think every single woman out there could benefit from this.
And no, dark feminine energy is not constrained to certain personality or look types of women,
Absolutely not.
In fact, I think that’s the beauty of dark feminine, is that it has nothing to do with what you look like or what your personality is.
While it’s true that radiating dark feminine energy may come more natural for some women, that isn’t to say that any woman couldn’t learn to tap into her dark feminine energy.
After all, we all possess it, it’s just a matter of identifying the traits and starting to bring them to the surface of your interactions and way you portray or carry yourself.
Why should you tap into dark feminine energy?
The obvious pro to tapping into feminine energy in general is that it gets you what you want.
Part of the process of tapping into dark feminine energy is understanding basic human psychology.
Once you start to see the effects, you will start to see that the world is your canvas and truly understand the power there is in being a woman.
It allows you to understand psychology better and be able to objectively assess situations without your emotions misconstruing.
When practicing anything, it becomes a habit and can influence your identity and how you view yourself. The more you practice, the more confident and happy you will become as a woman.
Examples of How to Have Dark Feminine Energy
1. Have Boundaries
Part of dark feminine energy is having boundaries and making it clear what you will or won’t accept or tolerate.
This means communicating this openly and also being prepared to follow through and walk away when someone doesn’t respect your boundaries.
2. Have High Standards
It’s imperative to have high standards as well as expectations for relationships in your life.
The treatment you accept is a direct reflection of how you view yourself.
Raise the bar and stop accepting less, no exceptions or explanations.
3. Self Knowledge and Self Discovery
Before you can alter anything about yourself, getting to know yourself and discover everything about yourself is key.
Some helpful things to explore might be:
- What triggers you?
- Do you have destructive patterns you repeat?
- What are your best qualities?
4. Self Love
True self love can’t be faked.
Fall in love with yourself and watch as others around you do too.
5. Self Forgiveness
No matter how many mistakes you may or may not have made in the past, a woman in her dark feminine energy does not dwell on the past nor does she continue to apologize.
She knows her value, and hence displays resilience and gives herself grace.
Self forgiveness is so important when it comes to learning to bounce back from situations where you underachieved or did something wrong.
6. Be Confident and Secure
Being confident and secure in your own body and who you are as a woman is a crucial aspect of being in your dark feminine.
7. Be in Touch With Divine Feminine Energy
Being in touch with dark feminine also means understanding and practicing divine feminine energy including showing compassion, flexing your intuition muscle, tapping into creativity, and showing emotional intelligence.
8. Embrace Sensuality & Sexuality
Harness your primal energy and unlock internal vitality and confidence by embracing your sexuality.
Being sensual and sexual is a huge component of being a woman and it often gets abandoned.
Some ways to start embracing sexuality and sexuality include:
- prioritize yourself
- self care rituals
- wear fabrics/clothing, makeup that makes you feel good
- do your hair, nails, and makeup
- be honest about what you like, want, and need
- read the book “The Art of Seduction” and play up your seduction style
9. Speak Through Actions Over Words
A woman in her feminine (both dark and divine) knows that actions speaker louder than words.
She also knows that sometimes power comes in self control and reacting less.
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